When Premature Ejaculation becomes a problem?

Premature Ejaculation or the condition of ejaculating too soon during sex is one of the most common problems of men. However, not in all cases it is a problem. Some occasional moments of premature ejaculation are inevitable in the life of almost all men. Though in most of the surveys only 40 percent men admit to have this problem, we can be safe to assume that a huge percentage of men never revealed about their problem of premature ejaculation because either they don’t know that they ejaculate too early as compare to a normal ejaculation period or they don’t want to admit it for the fear of humiliation or faceless in society. The point is that some moments of premature ejaculation comes in the life of every man whether they admit it or not. However, these moment are perfectly normal and do not require any treatment.

However, if, instead of happening occasionally, premature ejaculation starts occurring every time during intercourse then it can be classified as a problem that requires treatment. Three criteria have been earmarked which determine the gravity of premature ejaculation in a man:

(1) The persistent or repeated occurring of orgasm and ejaculation without much sexual stimulation, before, at the moment of, or shortly after penetration and before the man and/or his partner want it to happen

(2) Marked distress or relationship difficulty between the couple because of it

(3) The premature ejaculation is not due to drink or drugs and happens naturally.

If all the above criteria are present then we can assume it to be a case of premature ejaculation problem that needs cure. Having said that, it must be remembered that generally premature ejaculation is only to be expected in a sexually naive young man who is having sex for the first time, or in one who is sexually inexperienced, or in a man who has not had sexual intercourse for some time, so that he is considerably more excited than normal. These are the main factors that should be taken into account when considering whether a man can indeed be said to have premature ejaculation or not.

Once it is determined that Premature Ejaculation has turned into a problem, the next step should be to identify the main causes for it. Since there is no single cause of premature ejaculation, the treatment should be subjective depending upon the individual’s past history and present situation. The best way to cure Premature Ejaculation is to let the man decides his own path by choosing his preferred method of treatment without influencing him in any way. The role of sexual partner of the man (his wife or girlfriend) is extremely important in motivating him and helping him overcoming this problem.

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