What is Premature Ejaculation ?

If you think about most common sexual problem faced by men, you’ll find that Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem for men. In fact it is so prevalent that it is estimated that almost every man suffers from it at some point of time in his life.

Premature Ejaculation, as the name itself suggests, is nothing but a lack of control over ejaculation process during sex so that it often happens sooner than the man or his partner would want. Now how soon it happens and how much should be the expected normal time for it is something that keeps varying from one individual to other. In other words, we don’t have any scientific measured average timing to determine whether an ejaculation was premature or properly timed. There have been cases where the man ejaculates as soon as the foreplay starts. Some men lose control when they try to insert their penis into their partner, while some ejaculate very quickly after penetration.

Whatever may be the case, premature ejaculation can create tension between a man and his partner. Often it is not the woman who complains about premature ejaculation; rather it is the man who feels so unmanly on ejaculating so quickly. Woman, who by their very nature are adjusting and often prefer foreplay and other intimate acts other than the actual intercourse, can be very cooperative when the question of curing the premature ejaculation of their partner comes. In fact it is the man who become disturbed, depressed and annoyed by their lack of a consistence and prolong performance in sex.

However, all the cases of premature ejaculation are not chronic and in a majority of cases, the cure is possible quite easily. Occasionally losing control over ejaculation process is quite normal and should not be viewed as a problem. Premature ejaculation is only a problem if it happens all the time. It is only when the problem persists every time one has sex with his partner then one should think of doing something about it. It is important to keep in mind that that most men occasionally reach orgasm sooner than they’d like. It happens all the time with all the men. For example, it is normal for a man to ejaculate quickly the first time he has sex. When you have sex for the first time, it is natural for you to become more excited than ever. The first time touch of a female body, the excitement of exchanging warm breaths during sex and the intensity of love arouse both the partners to a heightened level. In such a situation, ejaculation is bound to happen quickly.

Considering another example, if a man has not ejaculated for a long time for some reason, it is perfectly natural for him to ejaculate quickly because of the over excitement of having sex after a long time. . These sorts of occasional loss of control over ejaculation do not mean that the man has a sexual problem. They are very natural and happen to all men. You should think of doing something about your premature ejaculation only when it starts happening every time you have sex with your partner.